KP, I do that as well, how ROCK SOLID HARD is it to ask them how they would search for something, WITHOUT mentioning the keywords you would use
E.G. if you say to someone , if youn were looking to buy a new dog kennel, what would you search for? Phrased like that they will 9:10 say "dog kennel"
My conversations normally go like... DON NOT SAY A WORD, JUST LISTEN, .....Say you wanted somewhere out the back to keep your dog, somewhere where your dog could go when he is banned from the house but he would be comfortable. How would you find him somewhere online? Show me.
My abstract conversations like that are a source of endless piss takes LOL