As a moderator/admin, you have to put aside personalities and feelings, and deal with each matter in the best interests of the forum. If you see something that might turn bad, you Pm the parties asking them to change a post. Sometimes you have to dive right in and lock a thread, or move it, clean it up, and put it back etc. But ALWAYS doing what is best for the forum community.
The forums where the mods/admins get to up themselves soon die out.
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